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What We Were Taught About Money Is Wrong

Four money beliefs to question, and what you can do differently.

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Darius Foroux
Nov 05, 2026
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Almost everything I know about personal finance and building wealth comes from two things: Reading books and studying people who are good with money.

Investing, in particular, is one of the best skills you can learn from books. You can study the principles that successful investors have used for decades before putting your own money to work. You don’t have to discover everything through trial and error.

Of course, you still have to manage your emotions when your own money is involved. Understanding patience is easy. Being patient when you’re scared or tempted to chase a quick return takes practice. There’s no secret you can read that will do that part for you.

But imagine learning about all of this earlier. How to invest, manage your desires, decide what to spend on, and avoid the mistakes people keep making with money.

I think I’d be further ahead today if I’d learned those things sooner.

Still, better late than never.

We pick up ideas about money long before we learn how to manage it. And when you look around, a lot of what passes for normal doesn’t make much sense.

We earn more and immediately spend more, feel guilty about wanting to earn well, or save for a future we’re never willing to enjoy.

You have to question those ideas, even when they sound responsible.

Here are four beliefs I’d look at first. Then I’ll share a simple exercise to help you catch these things in your own decisions and do something about them.

In the rest of this guide, I’ll break down four money beliefs that quietly shape bad decisions about earning, saving, spending, and comparing yourself to others, plus a short exercise to catch them in your own life before they cost you.

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